Don’t Explain Yourself — Just Be You!

 

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Don’t Explain Yourself — Just Be You!

Have you ever felt like you had to explain yourself to everyone? Like you’re auditioning for a reality show and judges are asking you, “Why did you do that?” Well here’s some good news: you don’t have to do it anymore.
I’ll let you in on a little secret — attempting to justify yourself to everyone is akin to putting water in a bucket that has holes in the bottom. No matter how much you pour in, it’s never enough.

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Why You Don’t Owe Anyone an Explanation

Life is too short to care what someone thinks. If they don’t understand your decisions, that’s their own problem. Have you ever met someone that changed their mind because of a long explanation? Nope. 
The people who care about you will not expect explanations for every single action you take. The people who don’t care about you? Don’t waste your breath!

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Focus on What Matters

Use that energy to better yourself instead of explaining yourself. Get a new hobby, read a book, or just binge-watch your show. Anything is better than worrying about what others think about your decision.
Life is about doing what makes you happy and not what makes everyone else happy. So wear that weird shirt, eat dessert before dinner or take a day off!

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The Funny Truth About Opinions

Here’s the thing about opinions: they’re like belly buttons — everybody has one, and they’re not always valuable. The next time someone is judging you, keep in mind that their opinion only reflects their life and not yours. They are not in your shoes, and they certainly aren’t paying your bills!

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Final Thoughts

In the end, you’re the one who has to live with your choices. You can’t control what others think, you can only control how much it affects you. So stop wasting time explaining yourself. Just be confident, be you, and let your actions speak for themselves. If someone doesn’t like it, that’s on them, not you.